Each and every May, we show those we see as our mother figure our love, appreciation, and gratitude. This could be your birth mother, an adoptive mother, a friend’s mum, a grandmother, an aunt, or a woman in your life who has cared for you. But this time of year is an excellent opportunity to show how much you love them.
Now, we’re not saying Mother’s Day needs to be expensive. On the contrary, grand gestures don’t need to cost an arm and a leg. Instead, why not put some thought into your Mother’s Day present? After all, as the saying goes: it’s the thought that counts. So here are some tips and tricks you can use to show your appreciation today!
Going Beyond The Bouquet Of Flowers
Flowers are a simple gift. But sometimes, they can feel a little last-minute. Many of us have been there. I, especially, remember a time when I browsed the baron supermarket flowers, sifting through the slightly dying, under-nurtured bouquets with the hope of grabbing that time-crunched gift, hoping they’ll believe my slightly bent mistruth that they were bought days ago. So, why not explore another gift this Mother’s Day that really expresses love and thought…
Here are some simple gift ideas you can pinch this Mother’s Day:
- Personalise your gift: Make a card, pottery, a painting, a personalised blanket or hand-made jewellery. Another smashing idea is a memory book where you can showcase photos and anecdotal stories of fond memories.
- Take relaxation to a new level: Why not offer your mother figure some form of relaxation time? This could be a spa day, a massage, or something to that effect. This can be expensive, but it doesn’t have to be. Find a spa day that’s off-peak times or set one up at home – run a bath, buy a bath bomb, and make a smorgasbord.
- Try something different: Make breakfast in bed, cook a lovely meal, create an afternoon tea experience, or write a heartfelt message. Mum’s love creativity (well most of the time), so this could be a great way to show you’ve thought about your gift this year!
Understanding This Time Of Year Can Be Difficult
For many, their mother may have passed away, be absent, or there could be family issues. This time of year can be significantly challenging for many. If your friend is in this boat, be sure to reach out today and offer your support. If this is you, please know that this time of year can feel apprehensive and sad, but there are steps you can take to make your day more positive.
If you’re missing or grieving your mother today, why not hold a day to remember her? You can gather as a family, tell stories of fond memories, and celebrate their memory. If your mother figure is someone outside the conventional mother-child dynamic, you can take the time to show them some appreciation today. Take our ideas above and use them to your advantage. These ideas are applicable to all those we see as mothers!
If You Need Support, Converge Is Always Here
We realise that everything we’ve said in this article is easier said than done. So, if you need help, someone to talk to, or you’re in desperate need of support, there are many avenues you can take. Visit your GP and detail how you’re feeling. Seek help from a psychologist, friend, or someone you trust.
Additionally, you can find confidential and free support right here at Converge. If we’re your workplace wellbeing provider, our team of 1,800-strong expert clinicians are here to help you today and every other day. Book an appointment on our website or through the Converge App. Don’t suffer in silence; we’re always here for you!
